45 things you do for your boy

1. When introducing your boy to your friends, please hold his hand and not point him out from afar.

2. Don't stare at other guys on the street for more than 5 seconds nor smile at them. Cute soccer players on TV are excused.

3. If he makes a mistake, tell him about it instead of leaving him guessing . (As we all know we will get angry if he guesses wrongly.)

4. Listen to him and "give him face" when in the company of friends.

5. Let me know that it's okie if you bully him, cox you are the only one who will mean him no real harm, and you are really trying to get his attention.

6. Show concern if he appears sad/troubled. But if he says he's fine, let him be. (He'll tell you when it's time). In the meanwhile, be specially sweet and attentive.

7. Keep his photo in your wallet, friendster, msn and everywhere visible.
It's a sign of adoring love (and also you are taken).

8.Don't leave him alone for more than 3 days. If he's sick, don't leave him alone for than 3 hours.

9. Be caring and sweet in the presence of his friends. Make him proud.

10. Allow him to show his chauvinistic side once in a while ( that can be really macho.)

11. Be gentle yet strong.

12. Be independent yet responsible (at least let him know when you are coming back at 3am.)

13. Make decisions when he leaves it up to you. (like where to eat and so forth.)

14. Tell him you love him.

15. Never kick up a fuss in public.

16. If in the wrong, do apologise. You'll be forgiven.

17. Try...try very hard to say what you mean. I.e. if you want him to call, at least avoid saying "Leave me alone."

18. Give him space to be with his friends. But remind him that you're the priority if he has to choose.

19. Learn to appreciate things he likes however alien it may sound - foreign movies, soccer , IT . . .

20. Date him.

21. Give him wholehearted attention when speaking to him, in person or over the phone.

22. Always speak to him in an adoringly fashion.

23. Never speak of your ex-boyfriends or other guys in a way that would make them appear more superior than him.

24. If other guys make their advances, you must hold his hand if he's with you. If he's not around, rule is to keep your distance.

25. Wait for him to hold your hand and help you cross the road safely.

26. Treasure every second with him.

27. However busy, give him a call at least once a day to show him you are thinking of him.

28. If you need to talk, but he is busy, go talk to your girl friends, blog or something.

29. If he has had a bad day, try not to bog him down with details of yours as well. After all, he's always the one who listens to your problems and gives you advice.

30. You might not know how to advise him when he tells you his problems but do your part to make his life easier by lessening your usual demands.

31. Love him.

32. Trust him.

33. Be faithful.

34. Praise him when he has done right things. Positive reinforcement.

35. Don't stop maintaining your appearance.

36. Don't smoke.

37. Don't take him for granted.

38. Don't fight and be angry with him for over 1 day and don't fight more than once a month.

39. Don't put on too much weight else it's difficult to ask him to carry you when your heels are hurting.

40. Try not to avoid more than 10 missed calls a day.

41. Buy something for him when you are on a shopping spree (and you've already bought 5 things for yourself).

42. Avoid comparing his shortcomings with your friend's boyfriends and highlight his strengths as often as possible.

43. Though you are always right, let him win once in a while.

44. Help him score points in front of your parents.

45. Always remember that he loves you.

So what do you think ladies?